Chojambulira cha "Case History".

Chilimbikitso cha chizolowezi ichi (ayi, ndi choposa chosangalatsa) chinaperekedwa ndi mtsikana wina. Zaka zingapo zapitazo. Chifukwa cha iye, wodziwa chida ichi choyimba, chojambulira, unachitika. Ndiye kugula zitoliro ziwiri zoyambirira - pulasitiki ndi kuphatikiza. Ndiyeno miyezi yophunzira inayamba.

Muli bwanji…

Nkhaniyi si yokhudza chitoliro choyamba. Zinapangidwa ndi pulasitiki, ndipo pambuyo pake sizinali zotheka kusewera pa izo - phokoso linkawoneka lakuthwa, "magalasi". Kotero panali kusintha kwa mtengo. Zowonjezereka, pa chida chomwe chimapangidwa ndi matabwa amtundu uliwonse. Kuchokera phulusa, mapulo, nsungwi, peyala, chitumbuwa, etc. Pali njira zambiri. Koma chimodzimodzi, mukamagula chida, mumachitenga m'manja mwanu, kubweretsa pamilomo yanu, kuchikhudza, kupanga phokoso - ndipo pokhapokha mumamva ngati ndi chida chanu kapena ayi. Muyenerabe kudziwana wina ndi mzake, kudziwana wina ndi mzake, kukhala wathunthu - moyenerera. Koma poyamba simudziwa za izo ndipo simuziganizira. Pamaso panu pali chojambulira, chomwe "chinadwala".

Nkhani yake ndi iyi…

Kufufuza kwamtengo wapatali (ndi zenizeni!) Chida chinatsogolera ku likulu la chigawo - Perm. Kudzera mwa odziwika bwino gwero Avito. Unali December, usiku wa Chaka Chatsopano. Ndipo nkhani yake ndi iyi. Chitoliro chochokera ku East Germany. Pafupifupi 1981. Mnyamata yemwe anali nayo tsopano akuchita nawo bizinesi. Chidacho chokha ndi cholowa chabanja. Sanafune kugulitsa poyamba. Ankasewera mwakhama ali ndi zaka zitatu kapena zinayi. Ndipo ngakhale anapambana mphoto zina pa mpikisano. Kenako anasiya ndipo chida anagona kwa zaka khumi ndi zinayi mu sutikesi pa mezzanine. Ndizodabwitsa kuti sanang'ambe kapena kusweka. Ndi zomwe zikutanthauza - chida chabwino!

Chovuta kwambiri ndi chiyani?

Zinapezeka kuti kuphunzira zolemba (kunalinso mtundu wovuta kuyambira kusukulu) sikuli koyipa komanso kovuta kwambiri. Chovuta kwambiri ndikuphunzira kusunga mawu, kukhazikitsa kupuma koyenera ndikukwaniritsa mgwirizano. Ntchito pa izi ikuchitikabe. Nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti zoyesayesa zonse zimagwera pansi. Nthawi zina, mosiyana, mumamva ngati Mbuye. Kumverera kotsiriza ndibodza komanso koopsa. Ndi bwino ngati munthu wapezeka m’nthawi yake amene adzadina pamphuno ndi kuitsitsa ku dziko lathu lauchimo. Ndizothandiza.

Kodi pali phindu lililonse?

Kodi mapindu ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi otani? Pali zambiri. Choyamba, thanzi lathunthu limakhala bwino. Chachiwiri, mumaphunzira kulamulira kupuma kwanu. Chachitatu, ndikwanira kungosewera pang'ono ndikudzipereka ku mphamvu ya mawu, pamene mukumvetsa momwe zotsutsana zathu zatsiku ndi tsiku zilili zochepa. Nyimbo ndi phompho lopanda malire. Ndipo ndizowopsa kugwera mmenemo, ndipo zimalira ngati maginito.

Mapulani - nyanja ...

Mbiri ya chitoliro, yomwe inayamba mu December zaka zingapo zapitazo, inalandira kupitiriza mosayembekezereka m'chilimwe chino. Inde, masewerawa akhala bwino. M'maso mwa munthu komanso pakumva kwa wina - zabwino kwambiri. Lolani kuti zikhale choncho - kuchokera kumbali zikuwoneka bwino komanso zomveka. Koma ngwazi ya nkhaniyi sanayankhe mwachindunji mafunso a zomwe ndikufuna kukwaniritsa. Koma kwenikweni, kodi akufuna chiyani? Kupereka makonsati aumwini ndi chitoliro chimodzi? Mulungu aleke! Pali anthu amene satha kupirira kumveka kwake, sangathe kupirira kwa ola limodzi ndi theka. Inde, ndikusewera chida chomwecho (ngakhale chokondedwa) kwa nthawi yochuluka nokha mudzatopa mwadala. Choncho m’lingaliro limeneli, munthu ali pamphambano. Ndidawona mitundu yopitilira imodzi yodabwitsa: mukamasewera bwino, mumangofuna kusewera pang'ono pazochitika. Koma pagulu komanso kwa anthu - mumalandiridwa nthawi zonse!

Ndi chiyani ichi? Mfundo yakuti chida anayamba kutsogolera. Za kupanga ndalama. Kuchokera ku ma ruble mazana atatu mpaka chikwi chimodzi ndi theka kwa ola la kusewera pamsewu. Ochepa? Zambiri za? Sizofanana kwa aliyense. Sizodzitamandira. M'malo mwake, zambiri zokonzekera nyengo yofunda yotsatira. Muyenera kulowa luso lanu kuimba chitoliro mu dongosolo. Sindikufuna kwenikweni. Ngati mzimu sunachoke pamasewerawo. Tikukhulupirira kuti izi sizichitika. Chitoliro tsopano ndi namwino komanso wolimbikitsa. Kodi mungafunenso chiyani?